心灵客栈 - 我也是,我喜欢做家务。都是小时候练的。其实生存能力是需要磨练的。其实,我也是闲不下来的人。 http://xlkezhan.com/forum/ zh_CN 我也是,我喜欢做家务。都是小时候练的。其实生存能力是需要磨练的。其实,我也是闲不下来的人。 (reply) http://xlkezhan.com/forum/index.php?id=567499 http://xlkezhan.com/forum/index.php?id=567499 Tue, 26 Nov 2019 02:11:00 +0000 笑话连篇 Big-apple 应该是小孩做家务对人生影响巨大!我上小学就开始自己洗衣做饭了,被子太厚洗不动就用脚踩。事实证明越小做事的长大了就做得越多,劳累命:) (reply) http://xlkezhan.com/forum/index.php?id=567469 http://xlkezhan.com/forum/index.php?id=567469 Mon, 25 Nov 2019 01:20:25 +0000 笑话连篇 春之歌 哈佛大学惊人发现,小孩不做家务影响人生(ZT) <div class="text-title" style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; font-size: 12px; position: relative; top: -6px;">
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<p style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;">凡是从小就好吃懒做、不爱劳动的人,长大了大多不能吃苦,独立自谋能力差,工作成就平平。</p>

<p class="ql-align-center" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center; font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;"><img max-width="600" src="http://5b0988e595225.cdn.sohucs.com/images/20191003/3aad31a24a88463cb43df99dffff12c6.gif" style="border:0px; display:block; height:auto; margin:10px auto 0px; max-width:100%; padding:0px" /></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify; font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;">哈佛大学学者曾经做过一项调查研究,得出一个惊人的结论:</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify; font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">爱做家务的孩子和不爱 做家务的孩子,成年之后的就业率为15∶1,犯罪率是1∶10。爱 做家务的孩子,离婚率低,心理疾病患病率也低。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify; font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;">另有专家指出,<strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">在孩子的成长过程中,家务劳动与孩子的动作技能、认知能力的发展以及责任感的培养有着密不可分的关系。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify; font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;">孩子不论年龄大小,都是重要的家庭成员,所以告诉孩子他们在家庭中应该负起的责任是很重要的,而承担家务则是最好的方式。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify; font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;">不同年龄的孩子可以做哪些家务劳动? 这张家务清单或许可以借鉴下。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">9-24个月。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify; color: rgb(25, 25, 25); font-family: &quot;PingFang SC&quot;, Arial, 微软雅黑, 宋体, simsun, sans-serif;">可以给孩子一些简单易行的指示,比如让宝宝自己把脏的尿布扔到垃圾箱里。</p>

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<p class="ql-align-center" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center;"><img max-width="600" src="http://5b0988e595225.cdn.sohucs.com/images/20191003/370453b644f5431eadefd7c59332f52e.JPG" style="border:0px; display:block; height:auto; margin:10px auto 0px; max-width:100%; padding:0px" /></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">2-3岁。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">可以在家长的指示下把垃圾扔进垃圾箱,或当家长请求帮助时帮忙拿取东西;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">帮妈妈把衣服挂上衣架;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">使用马桶;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">刷牙;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">浇花(父母给孩子适量的水);</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">晚上睡前整理自己的玩具。</p>

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<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">3-4岁。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">更好地使用马桶;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">洗手;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">更仔细地刷牙;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">认真地浇花;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">收拾自己的玩具;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">喂宠物;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">到大门口取回地上的报纸;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">睡前帮妈妈铺床,如拿枕头、被子等;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">饭后自己把盘碗放到厨房水池里;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">帮助妈妈把叠好的干净衣服放回衣柜;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">把自己的脏衣服放到装脏衣服的篮子里。</p>

<p class="ql-align-center" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center;"><img max-width="600" src="http://5b0988e595225.cdn.sohucs.com/images/20191003/9147adfc360f471e8c3b8526b8b8936d.JPG" style="border:0px; display:block; height:auto; margin:10px auto 0px; max-width:100%; padding:0px" /></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">4-5岁。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">不仅要熟练掌握前几个阶段要求的家务,并能独立到信箱里取回信件;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">自己铺床;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">准备餐桌(从帮家长拿刀叉开始,慢慢让孩子帮忙摆盘子);</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">饭后把脏的餐具放回厨房;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">把洗好烘干的衣服叠好放回衣柜(教给孩子如何正确叠不同的衣服);</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">自己准备第二天要穿的衣服。</p>

<p class="ql-align-center" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center;"><img max-width="600" src="http://5b0988e595225.cdn.sohucs.com/images/20191003/1375042abc6648e7a8339bf7ed5ddb0e.JPG" style="border:0px; display:block; height:auto; margin:10px auto 0px; max-width:100%; padding:0px" /></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">5-6岁。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">不仅要熟练掌握前几个阶段要求的家务,并能帮忙擦桌子;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">铺床/换床单(从帮妈妈把脏床单拿走,并拿来干净的床单开始);</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">自己准备第二天去幼儿园要用的书包和要穿的鞋(以及各种第二天上学用的东西);</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">收拾房间(会把乱放的东西捡起来并放回原处)。</p>

<p class="ql-align-center" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center;"><img max-width="600" src="http://5b0988e595225.cdn.sohucs.com/images/20191003/5cfc94bf82ad408aa47b1b3616fbeb38.png" style="border:0px; display:block; height:auto; margin:10px auto 0px; max-width:100%; padding:0px" /></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">6-7岁。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">不仅要熟练掌握前几个阶段要求的家务,并能在父母的帮助下洗碗盘,能独立打扫自己的房间。</p>

<p class="ql-align-center" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center;"><img max-width="600" src="http://5b0988e595225.cdn.sohucs.com/images/20191003/b9c8bbd7d82d4fdba7d8081c18141ce8.JPG" style="border:0px; display:block; height:auto; margin:10px auto 0px; max-width:100%; padding:0px" /></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">7-12岁。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">不仅要熟练掌握前几个阶段要求的家务,并能做简单的饭;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">帮忙洗车;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">吸地擦地;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">清理洗手间、厕所;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">扫树叶,扫雪;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">会用洗衣机和烘干机;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">把垃圾箱搬到门口街上(有垃圾车来收)。</p>

<p class="ql-align-center" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center;"><img max-width="600" src="http://5b0988e595225.cdn.sohucs.com/images/20191003/fa39f3dea43441709a8258922d785a0f.JPG" style="border:0px; display:block; height:auto; margin:10px auto 0px; max-width:100%; padding:0px" /></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">13岁以上。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">不仅要熟练掌握前几个阶段要求的家务,并能换灯泡;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">换吸尘器里的垃圾袋;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">擦玻璃(里外两面);</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">清理冰箱;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">清理炉台和烤箱;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">做饭;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">列出要买的东西的清单;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">洗衣服(全过程,包括洗衣、烘干衣物、叠衣以及放回衣柜);</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">修理草坪。</p>

<p class="ql-align-center" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center;"><img max-width="600" src="http://5b0988e595225.cdn.sohucs.com/images/20191003/c3a9dc4f46a94e59a236ddaf8e3f1818.JPG" style="border:0px; display:block; height:auto; margin:10px auto 0px; max-width:100%; padding:0px" /></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">凡是从小就好吃懒做、不爱劳动的人,长大了大多不能吃苦,独立自谋能力差,工作成就平平。因此,望子成龙的父母从孩提起就应为孩子创造一种环境和条件,对孩子进行早期劳动训练,让孩子做力所能及 的事情,让孩子生成一双勤劳手,使其终身受益。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">孩子在体验中长大,体验越多,感受越深。凡是孩子能做到的事情,家长尽量不要替他去做。孩子进一步大人退一步,这就叫成长。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">专家谈孩子学做家务&mdash;&mdash;</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">你的孩子是否已经到了可以帮你干一些简单的家务事的年龄,应该如何帮助孩子养成帮助做家务的良好习惯,早期教育专家为您提供以下建议:</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">如果你曾经有过要求你的孩子收拾桌子或是他的玩具的经历,你就会知道这绝对是一场艰难的战争,一个处于学龄前阶段(3-6岁)儿童的孩子已经开始能够对大人的要求表现出不耐烦和抵制的情绪。这可能会使你感到与其要求他去做还不如自己做来得容易。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">对父母来说,刚开始时与其说是让孩子帮忙,还不如说是给父母增加负担,但这却是培养孩子养成帮助人的良好习惯的大好时机。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">四五岁的孩子已经具备了用以完成简单的家务劳动所要求的良好的协调能力、灵敏度和集中力。即使他们不能完全理解父母的意图,对孩子来说也家务劳动是益处多多。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">而父母也要充分信任孩子,让他们发挥自信去独立完成某件工作。同时也要帮助孩子理解帮助他人是每个人应尽的责任和义务。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">尽管孩子们会觉得做一些家务劳动是件有趣的事情,但想让孩子养成良好的习惯却非易事。这个年龄段的孩子渴望被人依赖,所以要求孩子形成作家务的好习惯却非不可能。</p>

<p class="ql-align-center" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: center;"><img max-width="600" src="http://5b0988e595225.cdn.sohucs.com/images/20191003/3f6711ed290f4f13a557ea8abe418281.gif" style="border:0px; display:block; height:auto; margin:10px auto 0px; max-width:100%; padding:0px" /></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">如何让孩子轻松的,持久地养成这个好习惯,以下几点家长必须注意:</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">1. 让孩子感到自己的重要性。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">迎合这阶段孩子渴望被看作大人的需求,告诉他,他的工作对家庭带来很大的帮助,会因此节省出更多的时间,让全家人一起娱乐。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">2. 给孩子提供选择的权利。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">给你的孩子提供一份所有他能够做的家务的清单,让他/她自己选择其中的一两项工作,这会让他/她感到,自己拥有选择和控制的权力。从而心甘情愿去做自己选择的工作。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">3. 把任务细致化,并给孩子做示范。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">一个整体的概念(像&ldquo;把你的房间收拾好&rdquo;)可能会让孩子困惑并挫败孩子的积极性。把一个任务分拆成数个步骤(把玩具装进玩具箱里,把书放到书架上摆整齐等等),这样他才会确切的理解你的要求。另外,父母应该亲自给孩子做示范,回答他所有的疑问直到他能够独立完成。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">父母的耐心是非常至关重要的,即使他忘记了某个步骤,不要批评他,高高兴兴地提醒他知道他记住为止。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">4. 忘记&ldquo;完美主义&rdquo;。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">对这个年龄孩子来说,积极地参与比起结果来说更为重要。如果你的孩子洗的袜子不够干净,擦的桌子不够亮,不要去批评他的工作,批评会挫败孩子的自尊,更会降低他与人合作的意愿。如果某项工作要求每次都必须完成得尽善尽美,那这绝对不是一项适合孩子去做的工作。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">5. 给孩子提供合适的工具。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">不要给孩子一把比他还高的扫帚,给他一个小小的扫帚用来把案板上的面包屑清扫干净。如果你想让她帮你收拾饭桌,那末,就只让她把吃剩的饭菜帮你拿进厨房就行了。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">6. 给孩子做个好榜样。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">父母千万不要当着孩子抱怨做家务的繁琐和无聊,这会给孩子传达一个信息&mdash;&mdash; 做家务是一件非常可怕的事。父母应尽量让孩子认识到,帮助大人尽快做完这些事就可以留出更多的时间陪他/她一起玩。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">7. 不要强迫孩子。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">不要采用强迫的方式,给孩子留一个缓和的过程或一点余地。比如&ldquo;我可以让你玩十分钟,十分钟一到,你必须立刻去收拾你的书桌。&rdquo;这样的方式。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">8. 提供奖励。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">表扬和奖励会对孩子养成良好的习惯带来极大的帮助,而另一个有效的策略就是给孩子制定一个合理的计划:把他/她所要完成的任务的每一步骤绘制一张图表,每当她顺利完成其中的一个步骤,就奖励她一颗小红星。当他顺利地完成整件任务,奖励他一件他所希望得到的合理的奖励,注意了,不要用金钱和物质奖励。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">9. 合理安排所有任务。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">对学龄前儿童来说,重复做某件事就会让孩子感到乏味。所以应该不断地变换任务内容,但绝不要打破传统的习惯分工,例如让男孩子拖厨房的地,女孩子就让她去做一些需要细心的工作。</p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;"><strong style="border:0px; font-weight:700; margin:0px; padding:0px">10. 给孩子发展的空间。</strong></p>

<p class="ql-align-justify" style="border: 0px; margin: 0.63em 0px 1.8em; padding: 0px; counter-reset: list-1 0 list-2 0 list-3 0 list-4 0 list-5 0 list-6 0 list-7 0 list-8 0 list-9 0; text-align: justify;">一旦孩子掌握了之前交给他/她的工作,就应该给他/她提出更高的要求,扩大他/她的工作范围。比如,他应经可以熟练的完成洗衣前的衣服分类工作,那在你的指导下,就应该让他学习如何使用洗衣机了。</p>
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